Mary and Colin Didn't Get Married

[steepholm]

In a recent post I asked about attitudes to first-cousin divorce marriage, and said that my impression was that it seemed to be more of a taboo with young British people today than it had been for my own generation.

I considered asking my students what they thought, but refrained for a while, as it seemed a slightly disconcerting thing to bring up out of the blue. However, today I was handed the perfect opportunity, when a student remarked that there was no hint of an incipient romantic relationship between Mary and Colin in The Secret Garden, adding, "But of course they're cousins anyway."

I leapt in then, you may be sure, and asked for a show of hands. Did they consider first-cousin marriage (medical issues aside) to be taboo? I can report that every hand shot up: 18 out of 18. The group were 20 and 21 year-olds mostly, predominantly from southern England and Wales. All were white.

As a postscript to the postscript, I can add for interest that when Hallmark made a film version of the book in 1987, they framed it with a story in which the adult Mary (now a WWI nurse) returns to Misselthwaite and meets the adult Colin, played by a pre-Darcy Colin Firth. Romance is certainly in the air in that film, but Hallmark changed the back-story to make Mary no blood relation of the Cravens at all. So that was all right...

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[steepholm.livejournal.com]

I can't decide if that annoys me more than the musical version where the genetics have been swapped around so that Mary, not Colin, can remind Archibald Craven of his dead wife.

Agnieszka Holland’s 1993 version did the same thing, making Mary's mother the twin of Colin's mother, whereas in the book Colin's mother is the sister of Mary's father. Making them twins allows the good dead mother and the bad dead mother to be compared more directly, I guess.