An Easy Mistake?
Jul. 29th, 2019 08:28 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
steepholmA couple of days ago I passed a shop window advertising "Gender Reveal Fireworks" - a first for me.
For a minute I thought, Wow, haven't we come a long way? When I transitioned, coming out was a scary, nerve-wracking thing, fraught with fears of rejection, anger and hurt. Now, people can invite their friends to celebrate their coming out with a fabulous fireworks party in which they reveal their gender (in as many colours as it takes), proud of themselves and their truth, and confident in the support of those who love them.
Then I remembered I wasn't living in a David Levithan novel. Of course, the fireworks' real purpose was to lock yet-unborn children into a rigid, cisnormative gender binary.
Perhaps they could still be used for the first thing after all, though?
For a minute I thought, Wow, haven't we come a long way? When I transitioned, coming out was a scary, nerve-wracking thing, fraught with fears of rejection, anger and hurt. Now, people can invite their friends to celebrate their coming out with a fabulous fireworks party in which they reveal their gender (in as many colours as it takes), proud of themselves and their truth, and confident in the support of those who love them.
Then I remembered I wasn't living in a David Levithan novel. Of course, the fireworks' real purpose was to lock yet-unborn children into a rigid, cisnormative gender binary.
Perhaps they could still be used for the first thing after all, though?
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Date: 2019-07-29 08:26 pm (UTC)(Gender reveal stuff gives me the creeping heebies, and I ache for any intersex child born to parents who bought into that balderdash.)
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Date: 2019-07-30 04:36 am (UTC)This.
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